Never know another person from your mouth!
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1.永远不知道在别人嘴中的你会有多少版本，也不会知道别人为了维护自己而说过什么去诋毁你，更无法阻止那些不切实际的闲话。Never know how many versions you will have in someone else's mouth, and you won't know what others have said to defend you in order to defend yourself, and you can't stop those unrealistic gossip.
而你能做的就是置之不理，更没必要去解释澄清，懂你的人永远相信你。What you can do is to ignore it, and there is no need to explain the clarification. People who know you will always believe in you.
我最喜欢的一句话：如果你没瞎，就别从别人嘴里认识我！One of my favorite words: If you are not jealous, don't know me from someone else's mouth!
2.做人最好状态是懂得尊重，不管人闲事，不晒自己优越，也不秀恩爱。你越成长越懂得内敛自持，这世界并非你一人存在。The best state of being a person is to respect and respect, no matter how busy people are, not to be superior to themselves, not to show love. The more you grow, the more you know how to be restrained and self-sufficient. The world is not alone.
做人静默，不说人坏话，做好自己即可。不求深刻，只求简单。Be quiet, don't say bad things about people, be good at yourself. Don't ask for depth, just ask for simplicity.
你活着不是只为讨别人喜欢，也不是为了炫耀你拥有的，没人在乎，更多人在看笑话。你变得优秀，你身边的环境也会优化。You live not just to please others, nor to show off what you have, no one cares, more people are watching jokes. You become excellent and the environment around you will be optimized.
3.从今天开始，帮自己一个忙，不再承受身外的目光，不必在意他人的评价，为自己活着。Start today, do yourself a favor, no longer bear the gaze of the body, do not care about the evaluation of others, live for yourself.
从今天开始，帮自己一个忙，做喜欢的事情，爱最亲近的人，想笑就大笑，想哭就痛哭，不再束缚情感的空间，让自己活得轻松些。Starting today, help yourself, do what you like, love the closest person, laugh when you want to laugh, cry when you want to cry, no longer restrain the space of emotion, and let yourself live more easily.
A lot of things that you think are great. When you eagerly confide to others, it is also a small matter in the eyes of others. He should not be painless at all.
Because he is not you, he can't perceive your intense emotions. Until one day, you feel that you don't have to mention it to others, you have saved yourself.
No one in this world can really help you except yourself.
5，我们总是带着面具走进爱情的，总想展示自己最优越的一面，你要接受一个人，不只是接受他的优越，而是看清了他的平凡普通却仍然去深爱。we always come into love with a mask, always want to show their most superior side, you have to accept a person, not only accept his superiority, but see his ordinary ordinary but still love.
事实经常是：我们走着走着，就感觉对方变了，其实我们并没有变，我们只是走进对方最真实的地方，然后迷失了自己。The fact is often: when we walked, we felt that the other party had changed. In fact, we have not changed. We just walked into the most authentic place of the other side and lost ourselves.
6.我捧你，你就是杯子，我放手，你就是玻璃渣子。无论是恋人还是朋友，珍惜在你每一次难过，伤心时都陪伴在你身边的人。I hold you, you are the cup, I let go, you are the glass slag. Whether it is a lover or a friend, cherish the people who are with you every time you are sad and sad.
Cherish the people who often joke with you, indicating that you must have a certain weight in this person's heart. Cherish the first person you find when you are in a bad mood.
Today's big things, tomorrow is a small matter; this year's big things, next year is a story; this life is bigger, it is a legend in the afterlife.
人生如行路，一路艰辛，一路风景。你目光所及，就是你的人生境界。Life is like a road, all the way is hard, all the way to the scenery. Your eyes are the realm of your life.
总是看到比自己优秀的人，说明你正在走上坡路;总是看到不如自己的人，说明你正在走下坡路与其埋怨，不如思变。Always see people who are better than yourself, indicating that you are going uphill; always seeing people who are not as good as yourself, indicating that you are going downhill and complaining, it is better to think.
8.归零是一种积极的心态。所有的成败相对于前一秒都是一种过去。过去能支撑未来，却代替不了明天。Zeroing is a positive state of mind. All successes and failures are a past relative to the previous second. The past can support the future, but it can't replace tomorrow.
学会归零，是一种积极面向未来的意识。把每一天的醒来都看作是一种新生，以婴儿学步的态度，认真用好睡眠以前的时刻。Learning to return to zero is a positive and future-oriented consciousness. Think of each day's waking as a new life, and take the baby's toddler attitude and use the time before sleep.
Return to zero, let the bad do not affect the future, let the good not confuse the present.
9.总有一天，你会与那个对的人不期而遇：所谓的幸福，从来都是水到渠成的。One day, you will meet unexpectedly with the right person: the so-called happiness has always been a matter of course.
它无法预估，更没有办法计算，唯一能做得是：在遇见之前保持相信，在相遇之后寂静享用。It can't be predicted, there is no way to calculate, the only thing that can be done is: keep believing before meeting, and enjoy it after meeting.
宁可怀着有所期待的心等待下去，也不愿去对岁月妥协，因为相信幸福也许会迟到，但不会缺席。I would rather wait with the hope of the future, and I would not like to compromise on the years, because I believe that happiness may be late, but will not be absent.
10.哭的时候没人哄，我学会了坚强;怕的时候没人陪，我学会了勇敢 When I was crying, no one was jealous, I learned to be strong; when I was afraid, no one was accompanying, I learned to be brave
???? 烦的时候没人问，我学会了承受;累的时候没人可以依靠，我学会了自立。When noisy, no one asked, I learned to bear; no one can rely on when tired, I learned to stand on my own. ????
???? 就这样我找到了自己，原来我很优秀 So I found myself, I was very good???? ????
???? 更可贵的是，世界上，我只有一个，只有一个我???? ????
More valuable is that in the world, I only have one, only one of us