女人都一到年齡的時候，总是會想要開始學習獨立，就表示一個人的想法變成熟了，懂得照顧自己了。也懂得替父母人著想，在外國打工的人大多數的男女孩子都在这年齡到了十八歲以後就離開自己的家乡，去到別的国地方留居住了。許多人在打工中以後，直接生活这里，也離開不了。然而，離開自己的家乡到国外面獨自生活是簡單還是困難呢？When women reach their ages, they always want to start learning independence. It means that one's thoughts have matured and they have to take care of themselves. I also know how to work for my parents. Most of the boys and girls who work in foreign countries leave their hometown after they reach the age of 18 and go to live in other countries. Many people live here directly after working, and they can't leave. However, is it easy or difficult to leave your hometown to live abroad?
不管是簡單還是困難，獨自居住的你肯定會學習到許多以前在自家裡學不到的事情？Whether it is simple or difficult, you will definitely learn a lot of things you have never learned at home before living alone.
接下來，就讓我來告訴大家獨自生活的你即將會學到的幾樣事情吧！Next, let me tell you a few things that you will learn when you live alone!
你會了解自己的屬於內向還是外向，無論是與朋友們出遊，與家人享受著一頓愉快的晚餐，還是自行閱讀等，你都無法真正了解自己內心的一面。然而，當你開始獨自生活了一段時間，你就會了解什麼才是你真正需要的，什麼才是能夠將你推向前方的東西。You will know whether you are introverted or extroverted. Whether you are traveling with friends, enjoying a pleasant dinner with your family, or reading on your own, you can't really understand your inner side. However, when you start living alone for a while, you will understand what you really need and what is what can push you forward.
你會開始想念被一堆食物圍繞的日子，獨自生活就代表你必須要自己的商場購買食材，牛奶等雜貨。而且也只有你能夠為你自己做到這件事情。這會讓你無形中增加了對自己的一份責任，使到你變成更加獨立的人。當然，這有時候也會讓你感到壓力，尤其是當你非常需要一些零食來紓解壓力但是卻沒有足夠的時間到商場購買這些食物的時候。You will start to miss the days surrounded by a pile of food. Living alone means you have to buy your own food, milk and other groceries. And only you can do it for yourself. This will make you invisibly add a responsibility to yourself and make you become more independent. Of course, this sometimes makes you feel stressed, especially when you need some snacks to relieve stress but don't have enough time to go to the mall to buy these foods.
你會了解自己是個生活雜亂還是有條有理的人，當你獨自一人生活時，你還記得上一次打掃自己的住處是什麼時候嗎？ 這就是每個獨自在外居住的人們必須面對的考驗啊！這也會讓你知道自己是個怎麼樣的人。You will know if you are a messy person or a reasonable person. When you live alone, do you remember when you last cleaned your residence? This is the test that everyone who lives alone can face! This will also let you know who you are.
你會把自己當成自己的治療師，當你獨自一人在外居住時，你會時常自己和自己說話。此外，你還會發出不許不同的聲音以及和自己說許多不同的話題。當你發現自己和自己說話有時候會覺得很開心時，其實你就是在把自己當成一個治療師般探索自己的想像能力。當然，這絕對不是因為你發瘋，是你头脑开动成长了。You will treat yourself as your own therapist. When you live alone, you will always talk to yourself. In addition, you will not be able to make different voices and talk to yourself about many different topics. When you find yourself talking to yourself and sometimes feel happy, you are actually exploring yourself as a therapist. Of course, this is definitely not because you are crazy, it is your mind that has grown up.
你會愛怎麼穿就怎麼穿，當你開始了獨自一人的生活，你擁有了自己的住處。無論是自己購買的還是像房東租的房子，它現在已經是屬於你的了。因此，在家裡穿得隨心所欲一些對你來說是非常自由的开心，你甚至不穿衣服或褲子在家裡四處走動，因為你知道你絕對不會遇到和別人一起居住時會遇到的尷尬場面。You will love how to wear it, and when you start living alone, you have your own place. Whether it's a self-purchased or a house rented by a landlord, it is now yours. Therefore, it is very free for you to dress at home, and you don’t even wear clothes or pants to walk around at home, because you know that you will never encounter the embarrassing scene you will encounter when you live with others. .
你會獨自飲酒並且還享受其中，獨自一人生活在外以後，在一個美好的夜晚，你總是有一個非常好的兄弟姐妹群好友陪伴著你。沒錯，那就是你自己啦！一個人在家的晚上你可以獨自飲酒，在自己的房子裡唱歌跳舞，觀看電視，大笑且沒有人限制你這麼做。這時候，你會開始發現其實你這個人還挺有趣的。這就是獨自在外一个人居住時，你會了解到你要的富裕生活，雖然不一定是金錢上的富裕，但是你開始懂得更加愛惜你自己了。You will drink alcohol alone and enjoy it. After living alone, on a good night, you always have a very good group of brothers and sisters to accompany you. That's right, that's you! In the evening at home, you can drink alone, sing and dance in your own house, watch TV, laugh and no one limits you to do so. At this time, you will start to discover that this person is actually quite interesting. This is when you live alone outside, you will know the rich life you want, although not necessarily financially wealthy, but you begin to understand how to love yourself more.
對於那些未獨自在外打工的你，看完這些是否也有一樣的想法呢？For those of you who are not working alone, do you have the same idea after reading this?
學習自己生活是非常重要的，唯有懂得照顧自己，將來才能夠照顧父母，再怎麼說，父母基本上不可能一生陪伴著你一生，你要學習獨立也是對你自己的一種責任哦！It is very important to study your own life. Only by knowing how to take care of yourself can you take care of your parents in the future. If you say, it is basically impossible for your parents to spend your life with you. It is also a responsibility for you to learn independence.